Mentorship

Christian mentorship, friend mentorship, professional mentorship, pastoral mentorship - however you can get mentorship it is good for your relationship. The best thing for any relationship is to watch, listen and learn from those who have it together. If you want to be the best golfer, you watch Tiger Woods. If you want to be the best chef, you watch Julia Childs. If you want a great marriage, you watch those with a great marriage. I like to look at those in the church because if someone has a Godly marriage, then they are doing something right in this world. I want some of that. So my prayer this day is that I will find a great small group for my husband and I to attend, where they are successful in life and in their marriages, where they put God first and they are in joy and peace with their lives. Where their drive and determination aren't only for business, it's also for their marriage. Where God is first, Spouse is second and Self is third. I pray God will bring this small group to our doorstep and we will grow in community and life with them. What about you? Who are you mentoring? Who are you listening to to guide your marriage? Is it a friend and are they giving good Christian advice or is it a friend who wants you to party with them? Think about who is giving the advice before you listen with your whole heart.