The Act of Romance

So today's dare is easy if you are married, hard if you are in a relationship. It's about intimacy with your spouse. When you are dating, it's all you think about. Intimacy with your spouse and how you are looking forward to it. You spend your whole dating time saying no to that feeling and emotion. Then you get married, and you are to be intimate immediately. You are to turn off that no and just do it. It's the hardest thing. What you have been controlling you let become uncontrolled. What you are saying no to is all of sudden a yes. If you are just getting married, my advise just let it happen when it happens. There isn't a need to have it right away and it messes with your mind. God will take care of it. Now if you've been married, had an intimate relationship and it's fallen apart. This is difficult too. God is working on your heart with the Love Dare. He is taking you through all the steps again to enjoy your marriage but this is the ultimate in giving to your spouse. Because in the act of intimacy you are giving your heart and trusting again. It is definitely difficult but when you have this trust again, it's the best. The Dare verse is 1 Corinthians 7:3 "The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband." Duty isn't just the act it's everything leading up to the act, it's a clean bedroom, it's candles, it's flowers, it's listening, it's communicating, it's touching and loving. When all this is occurring in a relationship, intimacy is sure to follow. May God Bless your relationship today.